Odd this day

7 February 1941

Coates
3 min readFeb 7, 2025

This was the day the Queen Mother signed off a letter with the words

Tinkety tonk old fruit, & down with the Nazis

…and if that isn’t worth remembering, I don’t know what is.

Book extract showing excerpt from a letter: “I am still just as frightened of bombs, & guns going off, as I was at the beginning. I turn bright red and my heart hammers, in fact I’m a beastly coward but I do believe that a lot of people are, so I don’t mind! Well darling I must stop, and I do feel sure that all your present work is useful, and if you can put in a little refresher in nursing — well all the better. Tinkety tonk old fruit, & down with the Nazis always your loving Peter

This may raise a number of questions with you — the answer to the first one being, of course: yes, it is nice that that phrase is so very irrelevant these days, isn’t it? Quite the relief. Anyway, moving on…

Your next question could well be:

Peter?

And here we defer to the expert, Letters of Note, who knows about these things:

screenshot of Letters of Note page ‘Very untruly yours: How to sign off’. Reads: “Tinkety tonk old fruit, & down with the Nazis / always your loving Peter* — Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother, Letter to her niece, Elizabeth Elphinstone, 7th February 1941. *As children, the Elphinstones had been unable to pronounce ‘Elizabeth,’ so naturally they called her ‘Peter’ instead. The name stuck.

It’s worth taking a more detailed look at the letter, too, because there’s some good stuff in it: a perspective on war work, for example — the niece in question being a Voluntary Aid Detachment nurse

Personally I think the kind of work that you are doing now is extremely important. The life of the country must go on, & the human side is just as vital to the future as making munitions or planes. Especially the children; helping to mould their characters & make them good citizens make them feel What can I do for my country, & never What can I get out of my country that is good work. […]

It’s a pity HM QE the QM didn’t quite manage to impress that “‘What can I do for my country’, & never ‘What can I get out of my country’” on one, in particular, of her grandsons, but she comes across pretty well in this bit about her captured nephew

I do feel so deeply for you & your mother being brotherless & sonless for the moment. I cant bear it either, as I always look upon John and Andrew as part of my family! A mixture of nephews & brothers very nice & vulgar & delicious. I have longed to write to John [in a German POW camp] & have hesitated in case it did any harm. Will you send me his address, & I will get some plain paper & sign Peter, & perhaps that would be alright. […]

I mean, you wouldn’t absolutely guarantee that someone very posh and very rich would consider the implications of writing to a POW on Buckingham Palace notepaper — although there are, apparently, other letters which… may not have aged quite so well:

Of course, plenty in these letters also shows the distasteful side of royal conservatism. “It would be a thousand pities if S. Africa became a Republic,” Elizabeth writes at one point, “because the Crown is really the only link now left.” A reaction against the racism in South African politics at the time would have been one thing. But that particular sentence reads more like imperialist nostalgia. Or consider another bit of postwar correspondence: “Your account of Italy is very sad. I do wish that we could take them over, & govern them, & give them a start, & some hope for better things.” The talk of Indian independence, too, might surprise today’s readers: “I wonder what will happen if Gandhi dies? What an old blackmailer, he is, practically committing murder to gain his own ends, it is all very dreadful.”

From a review of Counting One’s Blessings: The Selected Letters of Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother:

The very next letter in the collection, incidentally, is from the Royal Train on 5 March 1941 to her younger daughter, who has had a nasty lurgy, and is offered sage advice on recuperation:

Well, my darling, don’t eat too much roast beef, boiled mutton, Irish stew, haricot mutton, beefsteak pudding or lamb chops whilst you are in bed. Just have a few eggs beaten up with onions, sprinkled with lemon juice, & served in a banana skin and you will soon be well. Goodbye my angel from your very loving Mummy

Which may not make any sense to you or I, but could well have seemed perfectly reasonable to someone who enjoyed one part gin to two parts Dubonnet with some regularity.

In other Important Anniversary News today, it’s 115 years since Virginia Woolf and her friends blacked up, pretended to be members of the Abyssinian royal family, and got shown round a warship…

…but, obviously, today’s Odd this day can have only one sign-off: tinkety tonk old fruits, & down with the Nazis.

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